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 Happiness or Contentment?
 

Happiness or Contentment?

A few weeks ago fellow blogger, Truthseeker asked, “Is there was a difference between happiness and contentment?”

What does the dictionary say?

According to Merriam Webster here are the definitions:

Main Entry: hap·pi·ness
Pronunciation: \ˈha-pē-nəs\
Function: noun
Date: 15th century
1 obsolete : good fortune : prosperity
2 a : a state of well-being and contentment : joy b : a pleasurable or satisfying experience
3 : felicity, aptness

Main Entry: con·tent·ment
Pronunciation: \kən-ˈtent-mənt\
Function: noun
Date: 15th century
1 : the quality or state of being contented
2 : something that contents

We have words defined using the word. What does “contented” mean?

Main Entry: con·tent·ed
Pronunciation: \kən-ˈten-təd\
Function: adjective
Date: 15th century
: feeling or showing satisfaction with one's possessions, status, or situation

Looking at M-W’s definitions, it would seem that happiness and contentment have the same meaning.

Personally, I think that happiness and contentment are not the same thing. I like to think that happiness is conditioned by happenings. If the world is going well, the children are healthy, the job is rewarding, the love life is satisfactory, then people will tell you they are happy. They will also tell you they are unhappy if some of these ingredients are missing.

Contentment, however, is not based on happenings but is an inner state of being that accepts what life is throwing at it without complaint. This state of being is best expressed by St. Paul when he wrote from his Roman prison these words:

“I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want.” (Philippians 4:11-12 NIV)

What is the secret of “contentment?” It is an acquired attitude that is learned according to St. Paul. Contentment is a discipline learned through life’s challenges. St. Paul says that it is his own personal relationship with God which provides him with the inner resources to be content in all circumstances. I have met many self-professed Christians who are very unhappy. Apparently, they have not learned the discipline of contentment.

Sure, I can be happy when life is going right, this is easy. However, when life is falling apart around me, it is another lesson in learning contentment.

© 2009 Ronald Friesen

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 Smart kid.... read to the end
 

Ontario Judge makes unprecedented ruling


TORONTO , ONTARIO (CP) OCT.13,2009

A seven-year-old Toronto , Ontario boy was at the center of a Toronto city
courtroom drama yesterday when he challenged a court ruling over who should
have custody of him.

The boy has a history of being beaten by his parents & the judge initially
awarded custody to his aunt, in keeping with child custody law & regulations
requiring that family unity be maintained to the degree possible.

The boy surprised the court when he proclaimed that his aunt beat him more
than his parents & he adamantly refused to live with her. When the judge
then suggested that he live with his grandparents, the boy alleged they had
also beat him. After considering the remainder of the immediate family &
learning that domestic violence was apparently a way of life among them, the
judge took the unprecedented step of allowing the boy to propose who should
have custody of him.

After two recesses to check legal references & confer with child welfare officials,
the judge granted temporary custody to the Toronto Maple Leafs, whom the
boy firmly believes are not capable of beating anyone.
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 Sunday meditations with John Williams
 





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 Friday doings....
 

After sitting in a mandatory supervisor's meeting all day, I will take June to the Arizona Broadway Dinner theater for some good eats and some good music:



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 When is a church just a charity dining hall?
 

There is a church, Crossroads United Methodist Church, which has been providing an outdoor worship service which includes a breakfast to the homeless and poor in north central Phoenix, Arizona since January 2009. The ministry is provided by a transdenominational group, called Prodigal House, representing over 20 different churches.

The neighbors are upset. They argue that the church by providing the meal with the worship service is violating the City of Phoenix’s charitable dining room code that restricts charitable dining halls to properties zoned as industrial use properties.

The church’s argument has several parts. One, serving food at a church is a normal activity of most churches. Crossroads church serves food on Wednesday evenings at its Bible study. When the city leadership was asked if this was a violation of city code, they answered, “Yes.” Second, it is the church’s mandate as given by its Founder, Jesus Christ, to feed the hungry, clothe the naked, and heal the broken-hearted. The Saturday morning activity fulfills the Church’s commission. Third, the city leadership has asked the faith community to step up during the current budget crisis and help it take care of the poor among us. The church is simply doing what the city leadership asked the faith community to do.

Today, one of the neighborhood leaders sent this out:

“Remember that a church is an allowed use in every residential, commercial and industrial district in the City. It will be potentially devastating for neighborhoods to lose this issue. Bad enough to deal with feeding of homeless on an unrestricted basis in any residential district. Once an unfavorable precedent would be established by a bad decision on this case, what could come next? Will a church want to have the current restrictions on shelters removed? How about Day Labor operations?”

The logic of this opposition is very strange. First, if Crossroad church was in a commercial or industrial district, there would be no problem. The church, as most churches, sits on land that is zoned residential.

Second, the issue is not serving the homeless. The issue has become does the city have power to define what ministries the church can perform and how they will perform those ministries? Does serving food at a Christmas banquet or a Shabbat celebration fall under the charitable dining hall designation. I have already heard of one church who cancelled its Sunday brunches because homeless people might attend and the city will show up and cite the church for violating the charitable dining hall statute. How sad is this! This is quickly becoming a First Amendment issue.

Third, the author of this email knows that ‘Day Labor” is a hot issue in this city. Why is this being put on the table? Anyone want to guess? This is called throwing heat on the issue without throwing anymore light on it. The issue of shelters for homeless is another red herring. Churches provide shelter to homeless families and have been commended for doing this. Just today, television news reports talked about how domestic violence shelters in this state are facing the likelihood of closing as the state budget continues to shrink. The state, the city and the community will not ask, they will expect and demand the faith community step up and take care of the situation. And the churches will step up as a part of their commitment to the Gospel. Will the city turn around and slap the hands of those whose faith tells them to care for the widow, the orphan and the fatherless just as it is being pressured to do in this situation?

I hope the city will realize that the current situation requires it provide guidelines that allow the faith community to meets both its spiritual and social obligation to care for the “poor among us.”
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