I meet lots of people who say they know about God. Notice 'about' God. They may have read the Bible (although I am amazed how many people have not read the Bible as adults yet make sweeping comments about its contents). They have a knowledge of various theological and philosophical ideas about God. They may say things like 'God is love' or 'God is all powerful' or 'God will work things out'. They sometimes say they pray to the God of their understanding. But as I explore these people's concept of God they have a very limited experience of a relationship with God. (I don't believe in religion - it a man-made construct - but I do believe in a relationship with the divine.) They may even quote verses of the Bible. Their conversation is always 'about' God and 'about' their understanding of God. There is little or no conversation about intimacy with God.
It's like this: when you meet someone who is really in love with another person - does he or she talk about this person in abstract, disembodied, theoretical terms? Of course not! There are passionate words stumbling out and tripping over each other describing this new found love. This love is no head knowledge; this love is an experience of the heart

. So it is with those who know God. Interestingly, the word in Hebrew (used in the Hebrew Scriptures) for 'know' is the same word used to describe sexual intimacy between a man and a woman. It is this kind of intimacy, this kind of 'one-fleshness' that God desires to have with us. It is the same kind of experience with God that each of us should desire. Following Jesus is about having this kind of intimacy with the Father. Jesus said that we are to be one with him as He is with the Father. I don't think that Jesus's teaching on this experience of oneness is about some kind of 'ontological' description of our relationship - it is about an experience of oneness so that when we talk to God we are know we are really having a private, heart-to-heart conversation (lovefest) with our Daddy. Have you ever had the experience where someone knew you knew you so well or someone knew you so well, you could finish each other's sentences? God wants you to know him so well you can finish his sentences! Followers of Jesus aren't stuck in their heads; they are head-over-heels in love with the Father.