Next time I think my life might be a bit of a challenge, I am going to remember this story shared by my friend, Mike, who has a minstry to the homeless in Phoenix.
A man named Lee
Lee was in the wrong place at the wrong time and was beaten by his “friend” who just “went off” on him.
That was April 5. The beating left Lee with a broken jaw and his mouth wired shut.
When we first met him a couple weeks ago he had only eaten minimally since the beating since there wasn’t much of anyone who would help him. He looked really bad. He was underweight. He approached us – clutching a drinking straw – and asked if we could do something… anything…. to help.
So we spoke with Maria, the owner of El Gran Taco where we serve the homeless each Sunday morning, and she made him up a concoction that he could drink through his straw.
It’s strange at times to see what is valuable to people who are living on the streets of Phoenix. When it’s colder it’s sleeping bags and beanies for a head covering. In summer, it’s water. But for Lee it was a straw. That straw was his lifeline.
He was carrying a plastic 32 oz glass, and he asked if we could fill it with the whole milk we provide on Sunday mornings. While we were filling it – filling it to overflowing! – Lee walked away from the crowd, toward a secluded part of the parking lot. He started coughing or gagging or something, I couldn’t tell what was going on. But in a moment or two it was clear: Lee was having a full-on anxiety attack. He just wanted those wires holding his mouth shut to be gone.
I set down the milk and put my hand on Lee’s shoulder. He began to weep uncontrollably. I prayed with him – and then I left him with three words: “Wait right here.” I went back to Maria and made arrangements to have Lee taken care of every day for the next two weeks. Each day at noon Lee will be able to come to El Gran Taco, and Maria will make something for him he can “eat” through that straw of his.
UPDATE: And the AZ Republic this morning:
Attacks on homeless rose during '07 Report faults criminalization of the down and out, exploitative videos Ted Gregory Chicago Tribune Apr. 30, 2008 12:00 AM
Attacks against the homeless across the U.S. rose 13 percent in 2007, a study done by two advocacy groups reported Tuesday.
The latest increase continues a trend that homeless advocates say has been ongoing since the group started tracking those crimes almost a decade ago, a trend worsened by the criminalization of homelessness and popularity of videos showing the exploitation of homeless people.
"Those experiencing homelessness are often ignored or misunderstood by society," said Michael Stoops, acting executive director of the National Coalition for the Homeless, a Washington, D.C.-based group that conducted research and compiled a report released Tuesday morning.
"If these brutal attacks were committed against any other religious or minority group to the same degree, there would be a national outcry and call for government intervention," Stoops said.
Key findings of the report, which also was compiled by the National Law Center on Homelessness & Poverty, show the number of attacks rising to 160 last year from 142 the year before.
The number of fatal attacks also rose to 28 from 20 deaths in 2006, the report states. In addition, youths ages 13-19 committed 64 percent of the attacks, the findings stated.
The National Coalition for the Homeless, which started compiling statistics in 1999, uses media reports, discussions with advocates and homeless-service providers and interviews with homeless individuals to produce the figures, said Tulin Ozdeger, civil-rights program director for the National Law Center.
Since the NCH began tracking violent crimes against the homeless, the organization has found a total of 217 deaths resulting from attacks in 235 cities representing 45 states and Puerto Rico.
The report, "Hate, Violence and Death on Main Street USA," found the highest number of attacks on the homeless, 29 last year, in Florida, which led the U.S. for the third consecutive year.
California, with 21 attacks, was second, followed by Nevada and Ohio.
The report found six separate attacks on the homeless in Illinois, the same number of violent incidents found in Oregon and Texas in 2007.
"It's a crisis that has grown and not been addressed at any level of government," said Maria Foscarinis, executive director of the National Law Center.
"This leaves people who are homeless extremely vulnerable," Foscarinis added.
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I have started a "prayer link" for Shadow and Crone that will hopefully go around as much of the Stream as possible. If you don't get "linked to" another site in a comment, you can come to my site and send out the prayer from there. It is my hope that as many of us as possible will join hands to send all the possible positive energy we can to them. Thanks.
thanks for the tip off - I understand Shadow is quite ill.
Prayers are on their way
ron
I have not yet Maria, but I would like to do so - my friend Mike feeds about 150 people every Sunday at Maria's restuarant -of course, they reimburse Maria for her cost. It is a labor of love at any rate.
thanks for your kind thoughts for Lee and others in his circumstances.
ron
Thank you for the beautiful message on my blog - I am having a great Wednesday - must be because of your kind thoughts.
that's me just goin' around and humbling people
please check out my couchtalk blog - let me know what you think
And yet, I have no idea what's going on with them. And I'm trying to be less judgmental and more sacrificial in my attitudes. I stopped a few weeks ago and gave some money to a woman there at the end of that off-ramp.
I realized how ugly my attitude had been and how much I needed to do something to break with that attitude.
It's a baby step, but it feels a lot better than the self-interested frustration did.
Just thought I'd share that confession with you.
I hope you're having a wonderful, homeful day.
sharp (Tim)
I think that life is a continuous test of kindness and mercy.
We of course hope others will grant it to us....
I think that is why Jesus made such a big deal about forgiving others as we have been forgiven
ron
hope you have a great day!
ron
It is so sad
May God bless you and June for all that you do for so many ppl in need ..physcially and spiritually...
Thank you...
the credit goes to Mike and Kim who work on a almost daily basis with these people.
Isn't amazing the inhumanity to man in our world!?
glad for your support.
ron